update
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Some donators already know, but I thought I would share this with everyone: the baby has acute asthma and we’re having a really hard time because of it.
Aisha is just a month old but around a week ago she started wheezing and her breathing was too fast, even in her sleep. Since she’s not legally registered in our country yet, we had to take her to the ER without a health care card and the doctor, luckily, pretended not to see and attended us anyways. After denying that it was a cold or allergies, he diagnosed her with asthma. That same night, she had an acute asthma attack and we had to run to the nearest pharmacy to get an inhaler. As mentioned beforehand, she does not have a health care card, so we had to spend over 100€ on a Serevent inhaler cause we didn’t have a health insurance to cover up the damage.
Those were our funds for this month, for groceries and baby formula, which, by clicking on the link shared on our last update, you can see how annoyingly expensive it is.
We also had to buy some Aerius syrup for 15€, some Pulmicort for 57€ and a new set of hypoallergenic sheets and blankets (since the doctor said they help avoid dusting) for 85€ on a specialized shop. Those three items were bought with part of my college scholarship since the father of the baby is absolutely penniless.
The problem is, the baby and her father live in a very small apartment by the beach that has little to no ventilation, making her efforts to breathe even more tedious. After talking to a company that sells gas tanks to treat asthmatics, they gave us a budget for a big gas tank so the baby could use on a daily basis. The thing is, we don’t have 1275€ for the tank, not even 15€ for the nasal cannula, which would avoid to cover the whole baby’s face with a mask, making her a bit more comfortable with her treatment. We’re flat broke since I can’t spend any more funds from my scholarship: I still need the money to pay for my daily expenses as a college student.
All of this, of course, remembering that the shipping of the so-needed gas tank would be 330€, because it’s not exactly a light item. It would take a week to arrive once purchased.
At this point we’re literally begging for help. Chefi hasn’t moved on, he’s still on Prozac to help him cope with depression, jobless and without a single cent on his wallet. And before you ask: yes, I’m paying for his anti-depressants too. His in-laws, the parents of Aida, don’t wanna help us either, they have even stopped caring about the baby since she’s “the reason they don’t have their daughter anymore”. They know a 18-year-old is feeding a grown man and they honestly don’t care. They don’t answer to messages and even blocked Chefi once.
If you have relatives, friends, teachers or literally anyone that cares, please help us. You don’t have to be a Muslim to help, just anyone with good intentions. Don’t feel bad if you can donate only 1$, that dollar alone would push us a bit closer to our goal.
Thanks from the bottom of our hearts.