Neither have I! And some people my age have had several, and broken up with all of them! It’s just a question of what you want, really. Sometimes, people get into relationships knowing they won’t last. Sometimes people hold out until they’re sure that the relationship they’re going into will last. Some people have interesting definitions of boyfriends. Some people believe they aren’t complete unless and until they have boyfriends, and keep jumping from guy to guy this way. Takes all sorts. I’ve never in my entire life had a boyfriend. Does this trouble you, though?
Hmmm…I don’t know. Most of the time it really doesn’t, but recently, for some reason, it really really has… I think it’s mostly just fear that I’m completely unloveable, or something, or too scared of the Real World to do anything…
Honestly? Unless there’s someone you really, really feel could light up your life right now and for the next few years then you aren’t missing out. If there is, then you should make a move. Does it bother you that you haven’t had a boyfriend?
Meh, I’ve had a couple, but they were crap and totally not worth it and went nowhere. So unless you can actually find an amazing one, you’re better off without. That’s what I think, anyway.
I’ve had one…but it wasn’t really anything…we didn’t kiss or anything like that. It do bother me…but not as much as it used to. Just remember…be patient…it’ll come.
Hey, I’m bloody *20* Sarah and have never had a proper relationship with anyone! :) I feel low sometimes, but we’re not all the same. If things happen, they happen, and if they don’t, they just don’t, I guess. I’m just not a very forward person, so that’s my problem, but I wouldn’t worry too much about it. You’ve got loads of time.
June 23, 2005 @ 6:57 pm
Neither have I! And some people my age have had several, and broken up with all of them! It’s just a question of what you want, really. Sometimes, people get into relationships knowing they won’t last. Sometimes people hold out until they’re sure that the relationship they’re going into will last. Some people have interesting definitions of boyfriends. Some people believe they aren’t complete unless and until they have boyfriends, and keep jumping from guy to guy this way. Takes all sorts. I’ve never in my entire life had a boyfriend. Does this trouble you, though?
June 23, 2005 @ 7:43 pm
Hmmm…I don’t know. Most of the time it really doesn’t, but recently, for some reason, it really really has… I think it’s mostly just fear that I’m completely unloveable, or something, or too scared of the Real World to do anything…
June 23, 2005 @ 7:21 pm
Honestly? Unless there’s someone you really, really feel could light up your life right now and for the next few years then you aren’t missing out. If there is, then you should make a move. Does it bother you that you haven’t had a boyfriend?
June 23, 2005 @ 7:31 pm
Meh, I’ve had a couple, but they were crap and totally not worth it and went nowhere. So unless you can actually find an amazing one, you’re better off without. That’s what I think, anyway.
June 23, 2005 @ 8:13 pm
I’ve had one…but it wasn’t really anything…we didn’t kiss or anything like that. It do bother me…but not as much as it used to. Just remember…be patient…it’ll come.
June 24, 2005 @ 7:46 pm
Hey, I’m bloody *20* Sarah and have never had a proper relationship with anyone! :) I feel low sometimes, but we’re not all the same. If things happen, they happen, and if they don’t, they just don’t, I guess. I’m just not a very forward person, so that’s my problem, but I wouldn’t worry too much about it. You’ve got loads of time.
June 25, 2005 @ 4:09 am
Neither have I. But I hear they’re not all that great. =P